When Your Teen Slows Down: Rethinking Rest in a Performance-Driven Culture
Parents need a clear, compassionate lens to see whether a teen’s slowdown reflects healthy rest or signals a deeper struggle.
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Parents, Avoid the Temptation to Do It All
A significant part of the temptation to “do it all” results from a fear that the clock is ticking. We need to realize that the Lord can use us anytime he wants.
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