Behind a Counselor’s Door: Why Kids Don’t Talk to Their Parents
If parents understand our own heart’s bent, we should be able to enter in alongside our teenagers with compassion rather than condemnation.
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Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak: Communicating With Your Teenager
Parents become a safe place to confess sin and discuss failure when teens can see that we need the forgiveness of the gospel just as much as they do.
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