Our Kids Are Not Upgraded Versions of Ourselves
Children should work knowing their identity lies in being redeemed by a loving God, not in being the family messiah.
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Finding My Identity Apart From Just Being ‘Mom’
“I am free to rest in my identity as a beloved child of God and allow that love to spill over to my kids.”
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What You Do Is Not Who You Are
I have taken something good—an activity my child is gifted in or a desire for my child to be involved—and turned it into a functional savior.
Psalm 23 for the Idolatry-Prone Minister
Our ministries cannot sit on the throne of our hearts if Jesus is already sitting there.
A Lasting Family Resemblance
I want my children to see Jesus in me, but they will not see Him though a picture-perfect family or a calm and peaceful household.
I Go to Church to Hear and Preach the Gospel
Church is a place of refuge, the only place I know of where who I am is not determined by what I do.
Good News for Teenagers: Dear Evan Hansen and the Promise of Being Found
When left to ourselves, we are reminded of the great need we have for help that lies outside of us. Thanks be to God, this help is found in Jesus.