Is it Love…or Enmeshment? Letting Our Children Go without Losing Connection
When we know our security is in him, we can let go of trying to find it in our children, our role as a parent, or anything else.
Five or ten years from now, teenagers will need to find and join a church of their own. They will learn to know others and be known by others; to receive care and give it. This can start now.

When we know our security is in him, we can let go of trying to find it in our children, our role as a parent, or anything else.
Change means that the same Holy Spirit is growing us both to reflect the same Christ.
Performance always asks for more, but the gospel of Jesus only asks that we stop performing in order to rest in him.
Your child’s relationship with the church must flow from their understanding of who they are in Christ.
Their weaknesses are given to them as a gift from God so that they would not look to themselves, but to the grace he has given them in Christ
God will use this time of transition to make them look more like his Son—the one who promises to be with your child every step of the way.
