Is it Love…or Enmeshment? Letting Our Children Go without Losing Connection
When we know our security is in him, we can let go of trying to find it in our children, our role as a parent, or anything else.
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Rooted’s Top Ten of April 2026
Welcome to Rooted’s Top Ten, a curated reading list for youth ministers. Each month we find ten articles, and sometimes videos or podcasts, from various sources that we believe will encourage you in your ministry to teenagers and their families.
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When Mental Health Struggles Dull The Joy Of Church For Parents
The enemy offers a false hope that by not going to church the problem will be solved. But real hope comes from knowing God, in the wilderness, with his people.
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With any teenager, Asian American or otherwise, we should seek to know them for who they are. We should learn about their lives as we ultimately seek to share the gospel and disciple them in it.
Rooted Parent Top Ten April 2026
Welcome to the Rooted Parent Top Ten, a curated list of resources from across the web that we believe will be helpful to parents. Here you’ll find articles, podcasts, and videos to support you in gospel-centered discipleship and interpreting youth culture.
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The older generation carries scars that testify to God’s sustaining grace. The younger generation carries questions that remind us to keep trusting. Together, we embody the truth that salvation is for all ages.