Teaching Teenagers About Grace
Our access to God is not based on our performance, it’s based on his grace. We are justified by faith, not by works, college applications, letters of recommendation, or grade-point averages.
It’s important to remember and to model for our children that God is not absent in the disruption, but it is often in disappointment that he meets families most clearly.

Our access to God is not based on our performance, it’s based on his grace. We are justified by faith, not by works, college applications, letters of recommendation, or grade-point averages.
We come as broken people welcomed by grace. And in parenting, these rhythms matter even more because our children watch how we cling to Jesus.
Scripture reminds us that even parents need friends. It reminds us what type of friends parents need, and the greatest friend parents could ever have.
We see that when the Father looks at our lives, he justifies us on the basis of Jesus’ obedience and law-keeping and zeal for God, not on ours.
Whatever our challenges are as a parent, large or small, we can pray with King David or with the smallest preschooler: “Oh Lord, be my help.”
By seeing us in our weaknesses, our children can look past our limitations and recognize God as their ultimate source of strength.