Gospel Hope for Parents of Boys Struggling with Motivation
Even when your son feels stuck, God isn’t. He’s still moving, still shaping, still pursuing, and he loves your child even more than you do.
No matter what stage of life our teenagers are in, we are worthy to build meaningful relationships with them. Our worth is not determined by how much or little we know, but by who Jesus says we are.

Even when your son feels stuck, God isn’t. He’s still moving, still shaping, still pursuing, and he loves your child even more than you do.
As we bring our anxieties about our lonely child before God, we can grow to trust in the goodness of God and his plan for our child’s life.
When my children taste God’s goodness, they will want more of him. His goodness, not my labors or longings, will be the reason they choose to consume more of him.
Parents become a safe place to confess sin and discuss failure when teens can see that we need the forgiveness of the gospel just as much as they do.
If parents understand our own heart’s bent, we should be able to enter in alongside our teenagers with compassion rather than condemnation.
Curiosity strengthens relationship; questions confer dignity. If you want your child to talk to you, try asking more and telling less.