Somethingism: A Guide for Parents
As your child heads out to university or into the workplace, they’ll need to know how to converse with the somethingists around them.
As your child heads out to university or into the workplace, they’ll need to know how to converse with the somethingists around them.
In my teens and twenties, I wrestled with my need and longing to be known and loved by my parents in ways I could comprehend. With a language barrier in the home, it was a challenge just to communicate about superficial matters, never mind the deep things.
As we bring our anxieties about our lonely child before God, we can grow to trust in the goodness of God and his plan for our child’s life.
Sexuality, as seen in the story of Scripture, is not first and foremost about rules. It’s an invitation to a relationship with the perfect Lover, one who offers a truer freedom, a deeper intimacy, and a better “ever after” than any other love story.
We love our children by hoping and believing that with God’s help, they can grow in the things that are challenging for them.
The gospel reminds us that we are not alone, giving parents the hope and security we need as we share life with our teenagers.
The gospel meets me in this moment and every moment when I blow it with my kids.
Keep reminding parents that the trip is a way for their students to share the love of Jesus with others and to learn cross-culturally from fellow believers.
As much as online “friends” might make them feel seen and loved, only Christ sticks around after the filter has faded.