When Parenting Worry Takes Our Eyes Off God
“Because of Jesus’ perfect life, his sacrifice on the cross, and his resurrection, we are guaranteed a future in a place where we will never have to worry again.”
“Because of Jesus’ perfect life, his sacrifice on the cross, and his resurrection, we are guaranteed a future in a place where we will never have to worry again.”
“With appropriate accountability, older teens may benefit from more freedom with their phones while still under the protective cover of our home.”
If we realize that it is ultimately God who builds the house and not ourselves, we might be surprised how he works in our children’s lives.
This discipline and instruction of the Lord is a continuation of the invitation into an intimate relationship with their personal, loving, and gracious Father, and not merely a means for producing altered behavior.
All the control I could ever exert over my children that I think will bring peace and order in my heart and home is nothing compared to the peace that comes from God: the peace that he established in creation, the peace that Christ gave us through the cross, and the peace that the Holy Spirit uses to continually instruct us.
We think that we are in control of our own lives and don’t need Jesus because we can handle everything on our own.
Seek not what you can’t control, but seek after the peace that comes in relenting to the God who created our children and loves them abundantly more than we do.
Laying our child’s needs at God’s feet reminds us of our limitations, releasing us from feeling like we have to play god in our child’s life.
When I am caught up in a spin cycle of anxiety, I do not have the peace of God that would allow me to notice and respond with comfort to my child’s worries.